It’s fair to say that French conjugation is one of the most complex aspects of the language, even if you’re a more advanced learner. There are more tenses in French than in English, with different groups of verbs playing by their own rules and many verbs that are just plain irregular. But in comparison, and maybe against expectations, reflexive verbs are not so difficult. Although they need reflexive pronouns in order to function, they’re quite regular in their forms and in their structures. They’re also very useful to learn, as they tend to be very common verbs to talk about daily life and routine.
- What are reflexive verbs in French?
- What are the rules of conjugation of French reflexive verbs?
- What about the interrogative and negative forms?
- A few examples of the most common reflexive verbs in French
What are reflexive verbs in French?
Reflexive verbs depict actions in which the subject and the object of the action are the same person. Put simply, you’re doing something to yourself, and not to someone or something else. This is marked by the reflexive pronouns, which come before the verb itself.
It’s also worth noting reflexive verbs often have a non-reflexive counterpart, without the reflexive pronouns. You can use one or the other, depending on who or what the object of the action is:
|Reflexive verbs||Non-reflexive verbs|
|Je me lave (I wash myself)||Je lave la vaisselle (I wash the dishes)|
|Je me prépare (I get ready)||Je prépare la réunion (I prepare the meeting)|
|Je me réveille (I wake up)||Je réveille les enfants (I wake up the children)|
What are the rules of conjugation of French reflexive verbs?
Quite a large number of reflexive verbs are -er verbs. They follow the same rules of conjugation. The only difference is the reflexive pronouns, which change according to the subject pronoun. Here is an example with the verbs laver (to wash) and se laver (to get washed) in the present tense:
|Non-reflexive verb||Reflexive verbs|
|Je lave (I wash)||Je me lave (I wash myself)|
|Tu laves (you wash)||Tu te laves (you wash yourself)|
|Il/elle/on lave (he/she/one washes)||Il/elle/on se lave (he/she/one washes himself/herself/oneself)|
|Nous lavons (we wash)||Nous nous lavons (we wash ourselves)|
|Vous lavez (you wash)||Vous vous lavez (you wash yourself/yourselves)|
|Ils/elles lavent (they wash)||Ils/elles se lavent (they wash themselves)|
The rule is the same for other simple tenses, like the future tense and the imperfect tense:
|Imperfect Tense||Future Tense|
|Je me lavais (I used to wash myself)||Je me laverai (I will wash myself)|
|Tu te lavais (you used to wash yourself)||Tu te laveras (you will wash yourself)|
|Il/elle/on se lavait (he/she/one used to wash himself/herself/oneself)||Il/elle/on se lavera (he/she/one will wash himself/herself/oneself)|
|Nous nous lavions (we used to wash ourselves)||Nous nous laverons (we will wash ourselves)|
|Vous vous laviez (you used to wash yourself/yourselves)||Vous vous laverez (you will wash yourself)|
|Ils/elles se lavaient (they used to wash themselves)||Ils/elles se laveront (they will wash themselves)|
For compound tenses like le passé composé, reflexive verbs use the verb être (to be) as the auxiliary verb. This means that the past participle of the verb agrees in gender and in number with the subject pronoun. The reflexive pronoun is placed before the auxiliary verb:
|Je me suis lavé.e (I washed myself)|
|Tu t’es lavé.e (you washed yourself)|
|Il s’est lavé (he will wash himself)|
Elle s’est lavée (she will wash herself)
On s’est lavé (one will wash oneself)
|Nous nous sommes lavé.e.s (we washed ourselves)|
|Vous vous êtes lavé.e.s (you washed yourself)|
|Ils/elles se sont lavé.e.s (they washed themselves)|
What about the interrogative and negative forms?
By and large, the rules are the same for reflexive verbs as for non-reflexive verbs. Once again, the only main difference is the addition of the reflexive pronouns.
The interrogative form of reflexive verbs in French
Just like for affirmative sentences, the reflexive pronouns remain directly before the verb, no matter what the tense. The rest of the question structure is the same as for non-reflexive verbs:
|Est-ce que tu te laves ?||Do you wash yourself?|
|Te laves-tu ?||Do you wash yourself?|
|Quand est-ce que tu te laves ?||When do you wash yourself?|
|Quand te laves-tu ?||When do you wash yourself?|
|Est-ce que tu t’es lavé.e ?||Did you wash yourself?|
|T’es-tu lavé.e ?||Did you wash yourself?|
|Quand est-ce que tu t’es lavé.e ?||When did you wash yourself?|
|Quand t’es-tu lavé.e ?||When did you wash yourself?|
The negative form of reflexive verbs in French
The negative form of reflexive verbs includes the usual words ne and pas. They’re still placed on each side of the verb, but don’t separate it from the reflexive pronouns:
|Affirmative Form||Negative Form|
|Je me lave (I wash myself)||Je ne me lave pas (I don’t wash myself)|
The same goes for le passé composé and other compound tenses: the word ne is placed before the reflexive pronoun, without separating it from the auxiliary verb:
|Affirmative Form||Negative Form|
|Je me suis lavé.e (I washed myself)||Je ne me suis pas lavé.e (I didn’t wash myself)|
A few examples of the most common reflexive verbs in French
Though they also exist in English, reflexive verbs are much more common in French. A large number relates to the daily routine and hygiene, from the moment you get up and say good morning until you wish goodnight before going to bed:
|se coucher||to go to bed|
|se démaquiller||to take off make-up|
|se déshabiller||to get undressed|
|se doucher||to shower|
|s’habiller||to get dressed|
|se laver||to wash oneself|
|se lever||to get up|
|se maquiller||to put on make-up|
|se parfumer||to put on perfume|
|se préparer||to get ready|
|se raser||to shave|
|se réveiller||to wake up|
Whether they’re about daily routine or not, quite a few reflexive verbs mention the body part that is concerned:
|se brosser les cheveux/dents||to brush one’s hair/teeth|
|se casser le bras/la jambe||to break one’s arm/leg|
|se couper le doigt/les cheveux||to cut one’s finger/hair|
|se faire mal au dos/à la main/aux orteils||To hurt one’s back/hand/toes|
|se laver le visage/les mains||to wash one’s face/hands|
|se raser la barbe/la moustache||to shave one’s beard/moustache|
Your turn to reflect on reflexive verbs in French
Be it in statements or questions, in the affirmative or negative form, French reflexive verbs are easy to learn and to use, once you get your head around their reflexive pronouns. As most of them belong to the group of -er verbs, their conjugation is quite regular. They’re also very useful verbs to know, in particular, if you wish to talk about your daily routine.
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